The Spice of Life II

Happy Valentines Day!!!

2012-02-14T13:09:00.001-08:00

This morning Matthew was woken up to chocolate, a movie, books, new shoes, and more candy!! I think him and his daddy laid in bed eating candy this morning for a while.

It's a hallmark holiday but it is nice to take a special day to make sure that your loved ones know you love them. I personally have the best husband and son a girl could ask for. I feel respected, cherished and supported in our home with them.

So cheers to loving and being loved!!!
Happy valentines!!

My Jellybean

2012-02-08T07:02:00.000-08:00

So, we're pregnant again. Wasn't sure if I had forgotten that or just been to busy to really let that fully sink in. I'm 12 weeks along and I'm really starting to get excited about our new little one. Matthew was referred to as Peanut until we found out he was a boy...so this child is Jellybean. I'm wondering if Matthew will continue to call this one Jellybean because that's all he says now. He likes to give kisses to Jellybean and tickle it. The other night he said he wanted to say good night to Jellybean...I have the sweetest and cutest kid, hands down!!

I'm starting to get my energy back, which is delightful. Eating is hit and miss but the doctor said I'm fine right now. I haven't had to get into maternity clothes quite yet and I'm trying to delay that as much as possible. I'm still able to run but have cut back my mileage and don't have to run everyday, though I would like to. I can also say that I ran a half-marathon pregnant...no one needs to know I was only a couple of weeks along. My one claim to fame...let me have it!

As the excitement begins to build about our Jellybean and continues for Matthew my prayers have become more about being the best mom I know how to be. Letting go of the things I don't and focusing on what I'm good at doing. I can love my son with all of me and when we heard Jellybean's heart beat last week, I knew that level of love would be possible again. I want to be fair, equal, and fun with both of my children. Will there be times that I'm stretched and wonder what I got myself into??? Sure, I've already had those. But ultimately God has blessed me with children and being their mom. I'm the best mom for them and I can either embrace that or compare myself to others. I'm choosing right now to embrace that and invest fully in the lives of my family...my priority (to include my loving husband that makes this possible).

So Jellybean,

We wait with expectation for you. I will treasure these times as I have been entrusted with taking care of you already even though I haven't even met you. Know that you have a family that is ready to love, support and raise you when you get here. You have blessed my life already and I have been taught many things already in these short few months. We believe in you and look forward to meeting you and know that you have a purpose and place in our family.

He's Listening!!!

2012-02-08T06:49:00.000-08:00

David and our dog, Sydney, have a love-hate relationship. She is the sweetest dog ever but for some reason David likes to give her a hard time. Lately he has been calling her "ornery and mean".

A couple of nights ago, Matthew and I were playing in his sandbox in the backyard before dinner. Sydney came up to Matthew, as she always does, and licked his face. This conversation followed:

Matthew: Quit it dog! You're ornery and mean.
Me: What did you just say???
Matthew: Dog is ornery and mean mommy.
Me: Son, don't listen to what your father says.

Dig, Dig, Dig

2012-01-31T18:15:00.001-08:00

This past weekend my brother was in town and helped dad with a project outside. As soon as we showed up someone had to go help the big boys.

Dentist visit

2012-01-31T18:11:00.001-08:00

We had our first visit to the dentist last week and I'm happy to say we all did great!! Matthew acted like he'd been doing it forever and gladly opened his mouth for them anytime they asked.

We had been talking it up and letting him "use" floss, which means sucking on it and saying it tasted like candy.

Afterward he brushed his teeth with his new toothbrush the whole way home.

Sleeping Woes and a few Mistakes

2012-01-23T11:33:00.000-08:00

Matthew has always been a good sleeper. Once we got a routine down it was second nature for him to head to bed, fall asleep on his own, and never be heard from again until morning. That is until lately....

For the past few months he has, I think, been testing his boundaries in the area of sleeping, both with naps and bedtime. Being the lover of change that I am, that has caused for some unexpected emotions lately. So here's a sample routine at night time...

Dinner...Nightly walk...Bath...Read books....Prayers and Songs...Zone out and look tired....Get in bed at about 8-8:15...NOW, it gets interesting.

Cry for Mommy and Daddy for about 5 minutes...Take inventory of all stuffed animals, blankets, and pillows in his bed...re-hash the day and talk about all that he did....sing a line from Thomas or Old McDonald...take the bar out of his bed safety rail...tell Mommy or Daddy that we're tired...get threatened about not going to sleep....overcome by guilt, get patted for reassurance that Mommy and Daddy still love you and only want the best for you....stay quiet for a good 10 minutes, finally!!....then begin singing loudly Thomas...and about 9-9:15 we will finally fall asleep. Whew!! (Note: I'm probably missing some steps of this process and definately left out the explicitives and long sighs heard out in the hallway).

So, can I completely blame my two, nearing two and a half year old for all this behavior? Nope. As I was laying on the couch listening to him talk last night I realized we, as parents, have completely undone alot of the sleep training we worked hard to put into place. Therefore, my confession...I can make mistakes. During naps, we've become relaxed about him falling asleep with one of us because we'll be snuggling reading or watching a show to wind down. We won't let him "cry it out" as much, and we probably are not as firm as we could be. I think all that combined with everyone wanting to control the situation, including the two year old, its not going to end well.

Lately he has also been waking up from dreams and talking (very clearly) in his sleep at night. That has added a new dimension onto it as well that I don't think I was prepared for. But if I've learned anything from being a mother, it is the following...I do not claim to know everything, I do claim to strive to know my children the best I can, and I will pray daily for strength to roll with the punches and changes that are inevitably going to arise with mommyhood.

So, there will be times when I, and David, don't do it right but my child is healthy, happy and content so we must be doing something right. And we can all sleep when we're dead, right?!?!!?

The King

2012-01-16T13:57:00.001-08:00

This weekend we decided to go get some Burger King for lunch and try out their playground. It was alot of fun and some cheap entertainment. Here's my little king sporting his crown.

New Shades

2012-01-16T13:56:00.001-08:00

He wears them all the time!!

A Country Visit

2012-01-16T13:17:00.000-08:00

Last week, Matthew and I went with my parents to Gatesville to see my Aunt Rosy and Uncle Dwain. We met at their house and then had dinner. It was great for them to get to see Matthew and as you can tell...Matthew thoroughly enjoyed himself.

We rode the four wheeler and golf cart. They also had a dog out there that Matthew chased around and around. I'm sure we'll be heading back there again for a little country living and playing.

The Beginnings of...

2012-01-11T08:59:00.001-08:00

A New Creation!!!

Matthew would like to let everyone know he will be a proud Big Brother around August 18, 2012. We are excited about our new life and addition to the family. Journey with us as we learn how to do this family of four business!!!

One more Christmas Celebration

2012-01-11T08:59:00.000-08:00

Monday we spent the day with David's family at his brother and sister in law's house. There were several kiddos out there which Matthew enjoyed playing with his cousins. Again, lots of food and gifts, a nap, a game of dominos made for a successful time.

Christmas Day

2012-01-11T08:58:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas!!!!

This year was so fun with Matthew. He was excited, aware and involved. The night before, Mom got a little wrapped up in things and forgot to let Matthew help put out the cookies. However, they did get put out and as Matthew stated that morning "Santa ate cookies and drank all his milk."

Santa brought a train table for Matthew, a soccer ball and a Baylor basketball. The later one was added in as that is specifically what he requested when we went to visit Santa. Luckily, any basketball is a Baylor basketball.

We played with our toys and then went to church that morning. It was a sweet time to be there together and have our minds pointed towards the true meaning of Christmas. Without the birth of Jesus, we would be lost and hopeless.

Funny story: While we were getting ready, I was cooking breakfast and touched something hot in the kitchen. David yelled into the kitchen "Are you okay?" Matthew then began copying him all morning saying "You ok?" During church the preacher said Ok during a part of his sermon which I guess triggered Matthew's memory, so he started yelling "You ok?" and laughing in the middle of church....life with a two year old.

The rest of the day was restful and we were able to play with toys and just be at home,which was nice.

Christmas Eve

2012-01-11T08:53:00.000-08:00

This year we spent Christmas Eve with my family. Earlier in the week my parents came with us to our church's Carols and Candlelight Service which was a great time. Matthew did great and really enjoyed all the music and production. Our agenda Chirstmas Eve consisted of presents, relaxing, piano playing (specifically Frosty, over and over, Dallas Cowboy football, and a mexican food feast. All these things came out great and were probably in excess.

While we were all unwrapping presents, we started to wonder where Matthew had wondered off to, this is where we found him...

He stayed in there for a while. Later he came and opened up his new bedding with me and took his blanket and got back in the box. Never a dull moment.

It is a sweet time always to be with my family and we are extremely grateful for them being close to us and involved in our lives and Matthew's.

We left their house after dinner in order to get home and get ready for Santa's big appearance.

Trains, Trains, and more Trains!!!

2012-01-11T08:49:00.000-08:00

Matthew has had a HUGE interest in trains, which will be highlighted on further Christmas posts. The Maybor Museum had an exhibit of trains so GaGa and I took Matthew one Friday morning. He loved it. And the detail and set up of the whole thing was enough for adults to be impressed.

"There's Thomas" "There's Thomas" was all we heard most of the time.

All Wrapped Up

2011-12-20T10:14:00.000-08:00

Wrapping presents is one of those dreaded tasks for me. I'm not good at it, everything gets just kind of wadded up on the ends and tape wrapped around everything. I always need a third hand to hold the paper and tear the tape, etc. Anyways, this year, I pulled out everything and began the adventure. But this year, I had this cute thing helping me...made it sooo much more fun.

When I got done wrapping each present he would go and put it under the tree. He really got into it. He held the paper for me (he's my new third arm) and we giggled and danced to all the Christmas songs throughout the time. Christmas is just too fun with this little guy.

Davis Family Birthdays!!

2011-12-20T10:09:00.000-08:00

This past Saturday we got to celebrate with Karlie and Kinsey, two of our favorite friends, at their combined birthday party. Ms. Karlie turned 4 and Ms. Kinsey turned the big 1. The theme was Candyland, and I think Matthew is still coming off of his sugar high. Marci did a wonderful job of decorating and providing a dreamland for every kid...and adult.

The main activity was each kid decorating their own gingerbread house with all sorts of different candies.

Working hard on our Choo-Choo

Which candy goes on next?!?!?

He took SEVERAL breaks to test out his work

Hanging out with the Birthday Girl and amazing cake

Singing....

Singing again for Kinsey...What a cute little pose...What? For me? No...you shouldn't have.

Enjoying her own personal cake

It's always fun to see Matthew play with all the kids and interact. The Davis family has a special place in our hearts so it was nice to be a part of their special day. Happy Birthday Karlie and Kinsey!!!

First Performance EVER!!

2011-12-14T09:32:00.000-08:00

Yesterday, Matthew's daycare had a Christmas program for all the kiddos. They have a new music teacher which I'm excited about because Matthew loves to sing, dance and play instruments. The title was "Little Bells of Christmas".

It was probably not a good idea to have all the kiddos lined up at the entrance where all the parents were walking by. My child was one of those that didn't like that I had to go sit down without him. Then later on I here his voice screaming "Gaga" "Papa" as they came in as well. Luckily he calmed down.

As they entered the room it was if a wave of crying happened. Matthew looked around and saw the two girls around him crying so here came the lip. Cute...

The finale...He's the green shirt in front of the teacher

You can see him crying. However, he was still doing all the motions, while crying, during the program. This is him turning around.

The only calm one...he seemed to enjoy having us there and has been singing all the songs.

This will be the first of many and it was so very fun and a proud moment to be a part of this.

Snowman Shuffle

2011-12-12T08:35:00.000-08:00

This weekend we participated in the Jingle Bell Run, which David's work is highly involved in. We've done it before, but not with Matthew. It was fun to be there as a family. David and I have dreams of Matthew running with us and doing events with us as he gets older. We walk every night (unless its below freezing) and Matthew loves it and goes for a while.

So, we decided this year to try out the Snowman Shuffle for Matthew. Its a kids race for kids ages 2-10. It is supposed to be about a half mile (which is what we walk at night), but we think their measuring was off as it seemed much longer. Our little guy seemed to be excited about it and it definately wore him out.

Before the race:

Didn't want to wear the bells

Enjoyed showing Santa everything on the way in.

We're cold....

At the start line. No joke...my kid was stretching pulling his leg up. Think he is from a running family!?!?

The race:

Starting off...doing good.

He got a little tired...but had some good people/parents to carry him through

Action shots

Half way at the North Pole

At the finish line...come on Matthew!!!

Everyone was cheering him on...notice he's not looking as he almost ran into the camera man

Coming across...look at that focus.

Post Race:

He got a finisher ribbon. He came in dead last, but probably had the shortest legs out there. I think the next oldest was probably 7 or 8.

Got lots of time to play with our friend Jackson afterwards

So precious.

Dancing with Daddy

2011-12-12T08:23:00.000-08:00

Only having your own kid could bring out moves in this guy....trust me! I've tried.

Notice the matching outfits....slippers included. Matthew has to ALWAYS be wearing what his daddy is.

Christmas Helper

2011-12-12T08:21:00.000-08:00

The other day I decided while Matthew napped I would get the decorations out in the yard. Matthew woke up before I was done so he got to help me with the rest. He is actually a really good helper and wants to help so it was fun to do it together. Plus, he loves everything Christmas.

He really loves the inflatables, can you tell???

I'm not sure when my son became this huge little boy. I'm consistently amazed by how much he's grown and developed. Super proud of this kid.

After we got done, it was important, as I'm sure it is in everyone's house, to play catch with Santa and the penguin. Mommy got to throw to Santa because it was "too big". Now we play almost every night with the inflatables.

Sounds of Christmas

2011-12-07T06:59:00.000-08:00

Here's a collection of wonderful sounds we've been hearing this Christmas:

Anytime we see a tree, Frosty, lights, or anything related to Christmas...Just like Matthew's tree...Just like Matthew's Frosty, Just like our lights.

After one "accident" while experimenting with throwing ornaments...They are now referred to as "breakables". Oh, that's a breakable.

Frosty the Snowman is sung around the clock...Frosty the Snowman, he's a fairy tale they say.

Mommy, let's go turn on Christmas...referring to the Christmas tree lights

While playing with the angel on his nativity set...This angel flies like a butterfly.

Let's turn on the Christmas music. Let's watch the reindeer movie. Let's watch Christmas.

Needless to say, there is excitement abounding in our house this year with Christmas.

Thanksgiving 2011

2011-11-29T09:33:00.000-08:00

We have much to be grateful for and I really got into Thanksgiving this year and just the spirit behind it. It was good to let others know what they mean to me and I hope to make this a regular practice....I should.

We had a great few days with just our family and extended family. Matthew loved having both his mommy and daddy around. He said alot "Go around with Mommy and Daddy." He definately had all the attention from both of us. Having David home from work for a few days also added to the fun as well.

On Thanksgiving morning, we initiated a McKown Turkey Trot and were joined by a couple friends for that. We ran about 6 miles and then got ready to go back over to my parents. This will be a tradition we'll look to do every year and hopefully in several years, Matthew will be using his own two legs with us.

We had a relaxing Thanksgiving day with family, about 9 hours of football, and just being. I had been missing my family, even though their 10 minutes away, just because we hadn't seen each other so it was nice to be in their company. We also had Aunt Susan, Sara and our friend Connie join us this year, which added to the fun.

Hanging out with best friend Papa

Reading with Ms. Connie

Happy boy...so fun to have around

The spread.

On Friday, we spent the day with David's family. We went to a late breakfast at Harold Waites and then went to see Happy Feet. Maci, Luke and Matthew all adore each other so it was great to be focused on their activities and watch them have fun together. Later that night we spent time with them again, after much needed naps, and had a relaxing time then as well.

He loves him some popcorn

The gang at Happy Feet....Matthew and Maci are behind the chairs

I recommend this movie

Definately kept his attention. Maci and Matthew were also dancing with the penguins in the aisles.

Happy cousins

Uncle David got them all

Hope you had a great Thanksgiving and truly try to believe in the spirit and meaning all year long.

Celebration Dinner

2011-11-22T09:38:00.000-08:00

This past week I passed my Clinical Social Work License test. It's a big deal and I'm glad its over with. This will enable me to do individual therapy with people. This has become a dream of mine and it seems surreal that God is blessing me with this, I am very grateful and excited about the next steps.

So, my family knows how to celebrate, we've celebrated anything from catching a ball to having babies, and everything in between. My husband has finally caught on and actually arranged this dinner for me and my family. We went to Fuji and did the hibachi. We actually just had a great time of fun and enjoying the time. Matthew loved seeing the fire "Fire's Hot!!" Thank you David, Matthew, Mom and Dad for taking time to celebrate with me. I couldn't have done this without you and it was nice to just have fun with you guys celebrating.

Mom, this is pretty fun!!

Our chef was so entertaining.

Oh, my sushi was so pretty and delicious!!!

Watching intently after the fire started

Giving the chopsticks a try

Celebrating is fun!!!!!!!!!

Mom and Dad! Thanks for the fun and the continued support!!

Who Doesn't Love a Parade???

2011-11-22T09:30:00.000-08:00

This year for Veteran's Day we got to go to the parade again but Papa and Gaga got to go with us this year. I taught Matthew to say Happy Veteran's Day which he said until he saw someone else. And then about 2 weeks after Veteran's Day, we were driving along and he just yelled out Happy Veteran's Day!!! A true patriot at heart.

Flag ready....where's the parade?

These two are inseperable

At least I was looking right?!?!

Here it comes! It was a long parade. Matthew really enjoyed all the bands and music and was clapping to the beat.

Waving at all the people with Gaga

Who Says Men Can't Cook???

2011-11-07T10:32:00.000-08:00

Happy 2nd Birthday!!!!

2011-11-07T10:29:00.000-08:00

Matthew, you are now 2 years old. I cannot believe it, but I'll go ahead and accept it. You are such a treasure to me and your Daddy. You are beautiful and truly have a sweet spirit. I'm excited to see what God is going to do with your life as your Daddy and I think that you are super exceptional. You are talking in full sentences now and its been fun to actually communicate with you. You are shy to people you don't know very well and have to feel people out before you trust them, but you came by that one naturally. You love everything to do with boy stuff...sports (specifically Baylor and Cowboy football), trucks, cars, dirt and being outside in the dirt. You have been such a joy and teacher to your parents. We have learned what its like to be a leader, to know EVERYTHING you say is being heard and processed, that you want to be like us and that is humbling, and that we would do anything to keep you safe and reach your full potential in life. We've learned we not only sacrifice our money to get you things, but our schedules, our activities and our ideas of what is best...and we would not have it any other way. You have made us better people individually, as a couple and as a complete family. You give us a reason to get up and do it another day and to live in that day joyfully. Matthew you are loved and cherished, may you always know you have a safe place to land at your home with Mommy and Daddy.

This year, on Thursday we took Matthew to Peter Piper pizza (aka...Vegas for children) and celebrated with Gaga, Papa and Grandmom(David's Mom). He had a great time and really enjoyed having 5 people be 100% engrossed in his activities. I don't have a single picture from that night because we forgot the camera.

On Saturday it was birthday party day! And Matthew has been talking about this day for weeks as we were having it at the zoo. He is slightly obsessed with the zoo. He woke up and said "Happy Birthday party at the zoo???" Yes son, its finally here.

It was great to have our friends and family there to help celebrate our little man. We could not have raised this kid without all of the help, love and patience from each of these people that attended. Matthew loved having his friends around to play with as well.

Always fun to see Gaga and play with Papa

Karlie and Matthew are inseperable...It might be the sweetest thing ever

Ms. Kinsey chilling

The Huse triplets

Cousin Maci

Baby Harrison

My son is the Mack Daddy....got his girlfriends, Sydney and Karlie in tow throughout the zoo

We had cake, made by David's sister Julie, and fully loaded up on sugar took off to explore all the animals. Alot of excitement seeing all the animals and running around along the way.

Ready to break into the goods.

For some reason he wanted to go show Gaga every present.

Look at all the puzzles!!

Running off all the sugar

Birthday boy! May this year be just as fun, meaningful, and full of great family memories. We love you.

Trick or Treating

2011-11-07T09:19:00.000-08:00

Monday night we hit the streets around our neighborhood to see what kind of trouble, I mean candy we could find. This year the Berry family joined us, as Matthew is completely in awe of Jackson. Gaga and Papa came over for dinner and were able to hand out candy at our house while we were gone.

The group taking off.

Igor...aka Jackson

So cute walking up to the door

"Jackson, you think you could score me some more candy?!?"

Looking for the next stop

He was definately wore out after this as we walked alot. But he had alot of fun and it was much more fun this year as he could talk and say to people "Trick or Treat". Good times.

Pumpkin Hunting

2011-11-07T08:25:00.000-08:00

We were a little behind this year with getting a pumpkin since we had birthday and Halloween all on the same weekend. But on Sunday we went down to a church in our neighborhood and got to pick some out for our house. It was wonderful weather so we decided to all ride our bikes down there to get it. Matthew got to "carry" the pumpkin back with him.

Checking our options

Daddy, this one is heavy!!!

You want me to do what?!?!?

Such a good helper

Who's this guy?

The best attempt at a sitting still picture

And after we got home and cleaned it out this was our finished product that night.

Fall Festival

2011-11-07T08:19:00.000-08:00

Whew...this has been a busy past few weeks with Halloween, family, birthdays and just a having an active two year old around. So, I'm catching up here.

The Friday before Halloween we went to a local church for their fall festival and did a trial run with the Superman costume. There were ALOT of people and it took Matthew a little while to warm up but once he did he really enjoyed all the games and activity. I think the candy that Daddy was giving him along the way probably helped his excitement level as well.

Initially we were not too excited about the Superman suit or looking at Mommy for the picture.

Definately the cutest Clark Kent I've ever seen

Walking in....ready to fill our pumpkin

Waiting "patiently" to get in.

Luckily we ran into our good friend Karlie and got to play a little with her

The two candy theives.

He really enjoyed the throwing games, and actually didn't do too bad at them

Already learning to hunt

Family Pictures

2011-10-19T10:58:00.000-07:00

The weekend that my brother and sister in law were in town we took the opportunity to get some complete family pictures. My friend, Monique, with 2 Girls with Boots Photography (highly recommend) did a great job of taking these. A few of the favorites follow....

The Anchors to the Fam

My son wanted NOTHING to do with these pictures. So he just played while we watched and took pictures around him.

The Original Four

Loving...

The Girls

They really do love each other

And this face about sums it up...

Definately a Mantel Worthy picture

This kid is cute

Finally managed a smile

Love the background on here

At least we are all looking

Laughing at Matthew

And I think he was done...

Pillow Talk

2011-10-17T13:42:00.000-07:00

Lately Matthew has decided its not the cool thing to go to sleep. He's tired, he's all tucked in, and....he's almost two!!! The last few weeks here are some of things we've heard either over the monitor or while we're telling him he has to go to sleep...

I know, Mommy, I'm tired

You better give me that blanket

I'm gonna get you blanket

Papa, come play? Gaga?? (No, son, they can't save you now either)

Pooh Bear go night night, Puppy go night night, Matthew go night night. (From the other room....Yes Matthew, YOU go night night).

Along with many other things and singing many songs, I tell myself its just a phase. Luckily I have sought out other moms who have confirmed that this is just boundary pushing. If only he wasn't so cute while he did it??!!?

Like a Rhinestone Cowboy

2011-10-11T14:18:00.000-07:00

This past weekend we had ALOT of family time, and alot of time with my brother and sister in law, Uncle Tim and Aunt Sam. It was great to see them and for Matthew to get to spend time with them other than the webcam. On Friday night we all went to the fair and Matthew had a blast to say the least. He loves animals of all kinds so the petting zoo was a big hit and the rodeo definately held his attention (as well as the candy, popcorn and 100% attention from the family). Lots of pictures to follow...

The following pictures were taken by one EXTREMELY anxious mother

Running around looking for the animals

With the snake on him...notice the snake is getting a little too friendly on his leg

Afterwards...I think David might have enjoyed that even more than Matthew

At the petting zoo

Helping feed the goats

Looking at the cows

He ran around chasing the llama in there screaming "Big Dog"

Any one need thier yard mowed??

The boys

Looking at everything at the rodeo

Having a blast together

We were stealing his popcorn and he thought it was hilarious

Uncle Tim was making him laugh

An attempt at a picture

And we ride (walk) into the sunset...

This will definately be a yearly thing that we'll take Matthew to. Lots of family fun.

Future Fireman

2011-10-05T07:44:00.000-07:00

Matthew loves trucks of any kind. But a special favorite is the fire truck. He's also a fan of police cars. So, this past weekend at the Woodway Public Safety BBQ, Matthew was in heaven!! In fact, 4 days after that we're still talking about it. While we were eating, the fire trucks had to be used as bribery in order to get him to eat (I'm not above bribery with my 2 year old).

Chillin on the truck

He enjoyed waving at everyone walking in

Climbing the ladder...ready to fight fires

Sheer excitement to be driving

Not sure what buttons he pushed but he pushed them all...sorry.

I'm sorry, when did my child become a little boy and get so big?!? Somedays it just sneaks up and surprises you.

Loving on Gaga and Papa that came to visit

Now we're a part of the SWAT team

Trying on the fire man hat...those things are heavy

After lunch we got to burn off some energy in the bounce house

Enjoying just bouncing around

Fun weekend times. We're loving our times with Matthew and just the fun loving and joyous kid he is. You can't help but have a smile on your face around him.

Matthew and His Dog

2011-10-04T09:19:00.000-07:00

Last night the daycare sent home a bunch of Matthew's drawings and pictures. We were looking through them at home and he wanted to take them outside while we were playing before dinner. He then went all around the yard holding out his picture while chasing dog saying.

Dog, come look at my picture!!!

Does it get any better than that? I don't think so.

"Hey Ralphie"

2011-09-26T08:51:00.000-07:00

Matthew loves to put my glasses on all the time. And apparently I wear my sunglasses on my head alot because anytime he gets those he puts them on top of his head and says "Like Mommy". Everytime he puts my glasses on David and I think he looks like Ralphie from The Christmas Story.

He runs around the house with them yelling "Hey Ralphie!" Gotta love this kid.

Little Vacation

2011-09-26T08:48:00.000-07:00

This weekend we took off to Kerrville to spend some time just the three of us. With David being busy with work in early September, we were grateful for some family time without distraction or responsibility. My aunt and uncle have a beautiful home that we were able to stay at and we never left there all weekend.

This was our view from the back porch each day...

This almost made me want to live out in the country...almost. The hills were killers out there. I went for a long run Saturday and thought I was in the mountains. Definately the Hill Country.

Daddy and Matthew chilling and watching football. I think they were both asleep shortly after this.

Walking circles in the hot tub.

They braved the cooler pool water and had a blast. Matthew would keep coming out of the water to warm up with me. (Note: We forgot Matthew's swim suit...)

It was a great time of relaxation and fun without the distractions of life. We look forward to doing this again.

Smart Kid

2011-09-15T07:03:00.000-07:00

I know every parent says their kid is the smartest...well, I'm not going to fail you right now. My kid is stinking smart. Lately when we've been driving around town Matthew will say "Like Daddy's truck" or "Like Mommy's car" but its not the same car as ours. However, when I take another second to look this is what I see...

Like Daddy's truck....

Like Mommy's Car....

It was crazy to me that he has figured out the logos on our cars and knows that other ones with it are like ours. Have I told you lately this kid makes my heart beat a little faster and brings joy to my soul?!!? No...well, there you go. He's definately observant.

Lions, and Tigers and Bears...Oh Yea!

2011-09-13T08:32:00.000-07:00

This past Friday the weather was AMAZING so I decided to take Matthew to the zoo that morning. Every single animal was out and about so it was alot of fun. He walked everywhere and only had me hold him a couple of times (I counted that as my upper body workout for the day).

He is much more verbal this trip and could name all the animals and sounds. He also let me know which ones he wanted to go back and see again before we left. He also had to tell all the animals "Bye, Bye" when we left. Good times together with my boy...I'll never forget these moments.

The monkeys were out swinging around

Getting a snooze...when we left Matthew said "Bye, bye kitty cat". Son, that is a little bigger than a kitty cat.

Watching the rhinos

He wanted to touch the giraffe

These aquariums are so mesmerizing. I think I was caught up watching the fish as well.

On our way there I asked him what he wanted to see and the first thing was...snakes!! Really?!!? Like any good mother I took him to see them in record setting time...couple of seconds maybe.

Sic 'Em Sleepy Bear

Hanging out in the Hut

Taking a rest...such a beautiful day

Football is Here!!

2011-09-06T09:39:00.000-07:00

Finally, football has arrived and more specifically Baylor football.

Friday night was the first Baylor home game and we were lucky enough to get to use one of David's co-workers tailgate spots for the game. Though it was warm, hot, whatever you want to call it, it was fun to have time to get in the spirit with all the other fans. Matthew had fun playing around as well.

Chilling at the tailgate

Mom and Dad got to join us

Matthew and Papa took lots of walks to look at stuff

Drinking lots of water and stealing a peak at the TV next door

Best friend in the world came to visit as well....Thank you Marci and Kyle for stopping by.

Matthew and I only stayed for the first quarter as he was wore out and really squirmy up there. But what a game to miss. 50-48 Baylor win with a suspenseful ending. Glad it was on TV so I got to see the rest of it.

Waiting in line to get in

He wanted to sit with Papa most of the time

Enjoyed clapping for the team...not so much taking pictures with Mommy

Switched hats with Daddy

There will be many football games watched between these two. David told me the other day, "I can't wait till I get to watch my boy play ball. That will be awesome."

On our way out to find the car. Still clapping when we heard the fans cheer. A true fan.

Way Too Big

2011-08-29T10:28:00.000-07:00

My kid is HUGE!!!!!!!!!!!!! Where did my little baby go? He's a big boy now. I remember when he couldn't get his leg over this truck so he just pushed it. And he couldn't run when he pushed it so his feet would get going to fast behind it. Now, he jumps on, and goes anywhere and everywhere.

Okay, just had one of those freak out Mommy moments of where has the time gone?? Must make the most of this time.

Too Close

2011-08-29T10:22:00.000-07:00

Here's what happens when Matthew is left "unsupervised" (I was in the shower) and Sesame Street is on.

Son, the chair is just a little too close to the TV.

Community Sprinkler System

2011-08-08T13:28:00.000-07:00

This weekend we were looking for different things to do, but all of them were outside and its just too hot for our little man. Then, the splash pad came to mind, aka "The Community Sprinkler System". David and I used to just play in the sprinkler...this thing was pretty cool.

And, Matthew loved it. We went back again on Sunday and he acted like we just left. All of these pictures are such a picture of being a kid in the summer...wet and excited!!

Ya'll are kidding me...I get to run around in this?!?!

This is hard work.

I haven't seen him run this fast and for this long in a long time.

Gotcha.

Singin' in the Rain

Hey Daddy!!!

And, I'm off again.

This was a no-no, but he liked sticking his fingers into the holes where the water came out.

I'm sure we'll be frequenting this place. Let us know if you head out there!!

Gymnastics Class

2011-08-05T11:48:00.000-07:00

Matthew got to do a three week gymnastic class this past month. He was slow to warm up to it but really enjoyed it for the most part. He REALLY loved the bars, the rest of the week I would hear "Hang on bars" all the time.

Moral of the story, I don't think we'll be the next Mary Lou Retton but we did it and it got out some good energy.

Putting up the carpet square

Bouncing on the trampoline.

He wasn't real sure about the trampoline

At the end of the trampoline they got tossed into this pit where they had to climb out

Our favorite--Hanging on the bars

He didn't want to walk across but did well climbing

Building

2011-08-02T07:05:00.000-07:00

Matthew has alot of traits like his Dad such as building things. Then, tearing it down and building it again. Or, taking things apart just to see how it works and goes back together.

Matthew improvised with building blocks and used whatever was in the pantry he could find.

(Mommy note: Please excuse the outfit, Daddy was in charge of dressing him this day. Gray shirt, brown and green plaid shorts...really? The response I got was...I knew you would change him before we went out anyway...classic)

Family Movie Night

2011-08-02T07:01:00.000-07:00

So, I decided to start Family Movie Night once a month in our house. And last Friday night was the first one. Pizza for dinner....check! Movie chosen....check! Pallet on the floor....check! Lights off...check! and Popcorn...double check!!

We rented Rango, not impressed. But Matthew enjoyed talking to the lizards and chowing down on popcorn.

It does my heart good to do these special things that I pray he remembers when he is older. I hope he remembers that mommy and daddy were fun and got down on his level and into his world and created fun memories.

Another Adventure

2011-08-01T08:41:00.000-07:00

For those of you that care...(probably just my mom). I'm starting ANOTHER blog mainly just for me.

http://pambeingreal.blogspot.com/

I'm needing a place to process my thoughts, share my successes and struggles and primarily to be an example of what being real and authentic looks like. My life is not white picket fences, dinner promptly at 6, clean floors, and fixed hair. But it's family, love, laughter, and relationships. So, journey with me and see how I seek to find the balance in all of it and provide grace for myself and others.

Tri Waco 2011

2011-07-26T07:16:00.000-07:00

Sunday, July 24, I completed (heck yea!) the TriWaco. This was my second triathlon but first Olympic distance one. That is a 1 mile swim, 25 mile bike and 6 mile run. It all started for me at 4:45 when I got up and got ready. Little nervous.

My #1 fan

I got all set up at my transition station around 5:30 and then we had our race meeting at 6:30. I got a quick kiss from Matthew and David before I started at 7:20. I totally underestimated the swim distance...it wasn't hard but I just felt like I was swimming FOREVER AND FOREVER. So I got behind on my time there but caught up on the bike portion.

The bike was flat and quick but the wind caused me some problems at times. Mother Nature is a tough competitor.

When I got back from my bike, David and my Dad were there cheering me on. I was talking to them and said, "The next time I say to you I want to do one of these...please give me a drug test to see what I'm high on."

Off to the run.

The run was through Cameron Park and the hills are TOUGH. They will make any level of athelete breath a little harder and hurt a little more. I ran up one hill, because I told myself I would, and then walked uphill and ran the downhills and flats. I actually was stronger on the run that I thought I would be. It's hard to think you are doing well when you know your feet are moving but you're not sure you are going anywhere.

Once I saw the suspension bridge, aka Finish Line, in sight, I was giving it all just to get done.

And....I had this guy waiting for me at the finish line. Well worth it.

He got the best deal, got to wear the medal but didn't have to do a thing.

Official Time: 3 hours, 36 minutes.

And, yes, I do plan on doing it again next year. I also plan to do some Sprint distance ones throughout the year in order to keep in triathlon shape. I feel challenged, accomplished and healthy. Several people have asked what my motivation would be for something like this. Two things: 1) I love my family, David and Matthew, more than anything and I want to be around for them as long as possible. I want Matthew to have an example of "You can do whatever you put your mind to." And for him to know its good to push yourself more than you think possible.

2) At any moment I could have my physical abilities taken away from me and I want to be able to use this body I've been blessed with. I'm in good health and do not have any conditions that keep me from being active so I want to take advantage of that and keep as active as possible until I'm no longer able.

It was fun. It's over. I'm sore but I'll be back out there again. Thanks for all the texts, calls and coming out to support me. It meant alot to have people rooting me on.

First Movie

2011-07-26T06:59:00.000-07:00

This past Saturday morning we took Matthew to his first movie...Winnie the Pooh.

And he loved it!! He really enjoyed it and clapped alot through the whole movie. He also enjoyed his popcorn, M&Ms, Sprite, and sitting in Mommy and Daddy's laps. (Needless to say, we saw that sugar high later on in the day).

We will definately do that again. We were grateful for the hour long movie, much longer, and I think it would have not been so fun.

Happy Birthday Potty?!?!

2011-07-18T11:35:00.000-07:00

On Thursday, my sweet husband arranged for all our family to come over for dinner for my birthday. And I truly had no idea. It was a fun time, I went to go give Matthew a bath after dinner (Heck yea I'm taking that option over doing the dishes) and he asked to sit on the potty. This is normal for us each night as we're trying to get him used to the potty.

Well, I turn around to turn on the water and when I turn back around he is peeing in the potty!! Of course, there are no flow problems with my son as it was going across the bathroom and running across the floor. He wasn't sitting back quite far enough for it to be blocked. But we praised him and got all excited. We'll see where this leads us.

July 4th

2011-07-12T08:55:00.000-07:00

It has been a busy, but very fun, summer and I'm behind on blogging. Fourth of July was a great time of celebrating friends, family and of course our independence. Matthew has a small obsession with flags right now, so I think this was his favorite holiday as he was constantly showing us all the flags. We spent time swimming at GaGa and PaPa's as well as time at home.

Hanging out in the front yard looking at all the neighbor's flags

Our little Patriot

On Monday, we went with David's famly to the Mayborn and got to enjoy some time with cousin Maci and Baby Luke.

Off to Egypt on a camel

Watching the Choo-Choo's

Cutie.

Cruising around on the rocket ships

Off to the races

Cooking in the kitchen together

Daddy, we're on TV! Doing the weather forecast

My boys riding the wagon into the Wild West

On Monday we were at home, and it was nice to just relax and not have anywhere to go. We pulled out the pool and sometimes we just don't have time to get the bathing suit, so we use our nothings.

Practicing his kicking

Dog?!?! What are you doing in my pool??

Good weekend. We are rocking and rolling. I've got Matthew starting a gymnastics class this week, so I'm sure pictures will come from that. It is fun sometime just to be with my family and not have to do something all the time, I'm learning that, and was blessed with that over the fourth of July weekend.

"Go Daddy"

2011-06-29T06:57:00.000-07:00

Last night David was playing softball and we got to go see one of his games. Matthew and I sat behind home plate (aka, the shade) and it was so cute when David got up to bat. I had been telling Matthew to cheer for Daddy.

He saw him and says, "Go Daddy!!"

Then as we walked out we were taking up the whole sidewalk and I told people "Excuse us" when we walked by. Then Matthew started saying "Excuse us" to everyone we walked by and just laughing.

This kid really does crack me up.

Mayborn Trip

2011-06-27T13:35:00.000-07:00

A few weeks ago, my mom (GaGa), Matthew and me took off for our first adventure to the Mayborn Museum. My mom, when she worked in development at Baylor, wrote the proposals for this museum. She wrote and described all the exhibits and justified to funders the importance of this building for kids, Waco and the surrounding communities. So, it was alot of fun for her first time to be taking her grandson for the first time.

The whole place is great and really well maintained and of course entertaining. It seemed it had everything a kid would want to play with.

Lots of cars to drive and play with

We're learning about "Yucky" for the trash

"GaGa, will you buy me this pony?!?!"

And the piano to walk and play on

School buses are all we talk about these's days, so this was a big hit!!

Now that we have an annual pass to this museum I think this will become a regular hot, rainy, or cold weather activity place.

Daddy Time

2011-06-22T10:36:00.000-07:00

David is such a fun dad with Matthew and they really do have a blast together. I think he is a kid at heart which makes him really fun for Matthew. It's a blessing to see them together and know that Matthew has a dad that wants to get down and involved with him.

First Haircut

2011-06-22T10:34:00.000-07:00

A few weekends ago, we finally had time to take Matthew for his first haircut. I've been giving him a couple of trims mainly to keep his mullet in check. We went to the lady that does my hair and she did great. Combined with me talking with him and David running all through the salon and outside the windows we kept him calm and still for the most part.

Then the meltdown began when he realized he was going to have to sit there for a little longer.

When she was finished he literally jumped out of my lap and ran out of the store.

After a little playing and a cookie reward we were good for another 100,000 miles.

7 Down...

2011-06-06T07:37:00.000-07:00

Many, many more to go. David and I celebrated seven years of marriage this Sunday. We were blessed with a trip to San Antonio for Saturday and Sunday. Matthew stayed with his Gaga and Papa and I'm sure got spoiled beyond imagination. We forgot the camera but have the memories captured in our hearts...right!?!?!

We spent Saturday night at the Silver Stars game, the WNBA team there, watching ex-Baylor star Sophia Young. It was alot of fun and after it taking us an hour and a half to find the place....it was nice to finally be there. We spent the rest of the night on the Riverwalk and had a great time just visiting about whatever.

Sunday we SLEPT IN...it was magical. Then went to a museum before going to our San Antonio tradition, Casa Rio for a wonderful lunch and drinks on the Riverwalk.

I'm blessed beyond belief with David and try each day to not take him for granted. He is loyal, determined, cracks me up all the time, and loves purposefully and deeply, especially me and Matthew. It is a joy to be his wife and I honestly can say it keeps getting better and each stage of life has taught us more about our marriage. It takes work, but that work is totally worth it!!

What I am

2011-05-25T11:30:00.000-07:00

I saw this on someone else's blog and I wanted to do this in order for Matthew to have some documentation about who his mommy is and what she is all about. I hope these continue to remain true of me when you are able to read and understand this son. May you always know that we strive to be real with you about our accomplishments and mistakes and hope we give you an example of genuiness and love for your life.

I am...a wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, social worker, child of God and loved. I am also intentional, loyal, very competitive, and real.

I want… to be the best wife and mom I know how to be. I also want to be purposeful in everything I do.

I have...everything I need, but sometimes don’t realize that. I have meaning, drive and ambition and most importantly lots of love.

I wish...that time didn’t move so fast.

I hate...drama. I’ve really become impatient to it when it is unnecessary, an area to work on.

I fear...death. I love the family I have and the life that I have and I get anxious when it comes to knowing I will have to leave the people I love.

I wonder...what Matthew will grow up to become? Why bad things happen to good people? And, why I can remember song lyrics from the 80s but not what I did yesterday?

I regret...not giving of myself more and taking time to invest more in others.

I love...my family…David, Matthew, Mom, Dad, Tim and Sam. We’re really close and I love sharing time with all of them. Family is my main priority and joy in life.

I ache...when I hear of a child being mistreated. And when I work with people that have lost all hope and when I don’t have the all the answers.

I always...try to keep perspective.

I usually...exercise everyday and in the mornings. There are some days it just doesn’t happen. I usually am pretty relaxed and calm.

I am not...good at losing, or change. And I am not a victim.

I dance…with Matthew and David. I get asked a lot more by Matthew!!

I sing...alot, but not well. Loudly in the car and I usually have a song running through my mind.

I never...hate or lie.

I sometimes...try too hard.

I cry... when I’m mad, which is not very often, and overwhelmed. I will cry at sappy love movies as well. I cry sometimes when I hold my son and realize how much I’ve been entrusted with. I cry when I laugh that really hard laugh.

I am not always...forgiving of my self.

I lose...badly.

I am confused...by technology and hope that I can keep up as Matthew at 19 months can already operate my Iphone fully.

I need...to take time for me. Its hard to do and creates a lot of guilt but in order to be the best for those who need me, I’ve got to do it.

I should...focus more on the important things rather than the things that rob my time and energy.

Young Jedi

2011-05-25T10:18:00.000-07:00

As a huge Star Wars fan, this was a proud moment where Mommy passed on her Jedi light saber to her young apprentice. Use the force Matthew!!

"Nice" Pictures

2011-05-23T09:45:00.000-07:00

My friend Monique has taken pictures of us a couple of times before and we are always grateful when we can get her to get some family pictures. We were able to take these over Easter and David was able to come along as well. It was hot!!! But everyone hung in there pretty well. Here are a few of our favorites.

Round Rock Express Game

2011-05-10T12:18:00.000-07:00

This past Friday we went down to see a Round Rock Express game. This is such a family friendly environment (and much cheaper than the Rangers) that I know we'll be frequenting this place. They have a playground, jumping areas, a swimming pool, and lots of room to run around all inside the ball park.

We ate the traditional baseball meal--hotdogs and nachos. Matthew never passes up a chip that can be dipped in anything.

He enjoyed watching the game and would show us the field when we asked where the baseball was. He LOVED the music as well, anytime they played a song his little booty was just a shaking. Very cute.

After about 45 minutes, he was wanting to run around. So we let him play chase on the concourse as well as play on the playground. This was a Mother's Worst Nightmare. There were literally about 50-60 kids running crazy on this thing. It was big and high and I told myself "Self, you're going to have to let him do this." And I did and watched him like a hawk. He. Did. Marvelous. He climbed up all the stairs, went down all the slides, and held his own with bigger kids pushing him around. Made me tear up a little to see him being so big...he's growing up...did everyone know that but me?!?!!?

This was a great time for our little family. We have been doing more things like this and has really been good for us to experience all these things together.

The Most Rewarding Title

2011-05-09T11:46:00.000-07:00

Mom.

I never knew the emotions, feelings, thoughts, actions I could have until I became a mom. I have a new found respect for my mom as I know what she did for my brother and me. I really feel like my heart is on my sleeve and waved around for all to see when I'm around Matthew. He blesses me everyday and God knows those special times when I really need it and here comes Matthew to deliver that blessing.

As I think about all the things I want to improve, learn, change, implement, in my life and my family, I was humbled by knowing my son loves me for me. He doesn't care if I have make up on, if I have 10 degrees or credentials after my name, if I'm skinny or fat, what car I drive, how much money we make, etc. What he knows is that I'm his mommy, and that's enough for him. May I strive to love like that.

He's a good kid. He's got a good dad who I could not have done any of the things I've done in life and with Matthew alone. He's our family's rock and a firm foundation.

So, thank you Matthew for allowing me to serve as your Mommy and to stand a little taller and prouder when I think of being your mom.

Where's Matthew???

2011-05-02T09:36:00.000-07:00

Matthew has found a new hiding place in our bathroom. He pulled at ALL the towels and has alot of toys stuck in here now and his shoes. When it gets quiet in the house, that's where I usually find him.

Can you see me????

Because here I am!!

Working at the Carwash

2011-05-02T09:33:00.001-07:00

And the Hunt is On

2011-04-26T10:22:00.000-07:00

We celebrated Easter on Saturday and had a really fun time. Of course, we celebrated our risen Lord Sunday but got all the Easter fun and candy done on Saturday. Every Saturday wouldn't be complete without a good game of hide-and-seek.

We went over to my parents house that morning to do our Easter egg hunt so they could be apart of it. Later that day all of my extended family came over and we had lots of food, family and fun.

Here are some of the eggs hidden.

Can you find them???

Matthew really took on to the Easter egg hunt more than I thought he would. He picked them up, put them in his basket and then took off to find more of them. He was really cute and appeared to have a great time.

Some of the eggs were mini footballs, so he was really excited about those.

Putting each egg into the basket...the kid is meticulous.

Daddy got to help him find some as well...and luckily I remembered where I put them all so we didn't have any random finds later.

The Full Basket

I put some of his favorite snack foods in his eggs this year, rather than a bunch of candy. Of course there was a fair share of candy given out to him...how else am I supposed to get candy from a baby?!?!?

After our hunt, we went cruising in the driveway on our bike in order to work up an appetite for lunch.

Alot of the family went swimming and Matthew to hang with Papa and get his feet wet.

Then we couldn't resist anymore and had the first swim of the year. There were alot of other "big" kids swimming and Matthew was just dying to get in. However, when he got in I asked him what he thought and he shrugged and said "Brrr".

Sunday morning (no pics from that day) our tradition is to go to a sunrise service and then to IHOP before our church service. We had a great time of worship at the sunrise service and then fun family time at IHOP. We took Matthew to church with us because I like for us to be together on big holidays. He did REALLY well and enjoyed seeing all the people and all the music. He had to leave when the sermon started, not because he was being bad, but just because he was talking ALOT. He hasn't quite learned about inside vs. outside voices. It was a sweet time of family the rest of the day and more swimming after his nap with Papa and Gaga.

I pray that Matthew comes to realize the powerful meaning of Easter and how it can and will change his life. He asks to read his Bible every night and points to Jesus and says His name. Gives us great joy knowing that he is being raised in a home where that is important but that we realize we're not perfect and our home is a place of grace, forgiveness, and fun.

Because He lives!!

Easter Egg Fun

2011-04-26T09:51:00.000-07:00

This Easter was the first Easter in 7 years that David has been off work for it. Usually it falls the weekend of the deadline of taxes, so it was a very exciting time to have him around on Good Friday. Here's some of the activities we did as a family.

Building a monster tower

Hiding under the table with Snuggles

Mommy, it's time to color eggs right?!?!

Wow! That egg is turning green!!

Definately giggling at all the eggs

Just testing it

If eggs weren't so stinky I think they'd be a favorite toy to play with

Our finished products that were hidden by the Easter bunny and hunted the next day

Busted Noggin

2011-04-26T09:11:00.000-07:00

Matthew and I were playing outside Thursday afternoon when he was getting out of his picnic table (shown below). And his foot caught on the table and he fell backward and hit his head.

It bled and David was on his way. By the time he got home Matthew was back to normal, but had a good size knot on his head. When he got home we decided to take him to the urgent care clinic and they glued him up. There is still a nasty wad of glued hair but it will come out. Glad he was okay.

Counting

2011-04-25T11:51:00.001-07:00

This weekend, Matthew counted to 5. Proud moment. We've been telling him numbers but he hasn't acted like he's cared. But on Sunday at breakfast he counted all the way to 5. At the end, he says "High Five". Cute kid.

Reflections of a Tax Widow

2011-04-19T09:51:00.000-07:00

Tax season (beginning mid January- April 15th) is a big thing in our household. It's not only a big part of our livelihood and income but this is David's passion and where God has placed him. I really have been confirmed that he is good at it as well and his mind clicks in such a way that being a CPA really gives him the outlet to be detail oriented, focused, and driven. I'm very proud of him to say the least.

However, tax season ALWAYS, let me say that again, Always! sneaks up on me. David and I always prepare for his temporary leave from the family by taking a trip in January, which was Vegas. And then I get the infamous email..."Mike said overtime hours need to start this week." What?!?! Wait, I'm not ready. Well, there's not really an option. So it begins and David works on Saturdays, some Sundays, and also late in the evening. It takes him away not only from us wanting him there but I know he would rather be at home spending time there as well.

So, do I learn anything during tax season? If I let myself I will. Which I really tried to this year, and I always learn that I never want to be a single parent and I'm richly blessed to have David around. But not only around but involved, he wants to spend time with Matthew, he wants to give me time for me, and he proves to me on a consistent basis that work and family are important to him.

I thought this year would be easier because I wasn't on a newborn schedule, but this year had its challenges of its own and they can all be summed up in three words...on the move. Which is what Matthew is right now. Of course, it keeps me focused and out of trouble (aka, laziness) when he like that.

I realized also that my job during this tax season was to not only be Matthew's mom, but to be the safe place for David to land when he came home. Sometimes, I found myself focused on my needs and failed to recognize the needs he has. (Pam, the world does not revolve around you...shocker!!!) But the most important thing I'm always reminded during tax season as a wife is that if I create a defensive, complaining and demanding environment at home then David's not going to feel like he has an outlet there. So, I try to choose my battles wisely and realize I'm where David comes to be loved, supported and praised when he may not be getting that at work. He needs to here I'm proud of you regardless of how much money you got someone on their return. So, that was my focus. I was better able to express my concerns and needs and not completely deny them but recognize that they needed to come second even though they were in my face.

Good reminders for me. I also have the most amazing family and a few friends that stepped up to the plate to recognize the need in me for a break, even when I didn't. My parents are phenomenal and allowed me to take care of me during this time. That time was priceless. I had a couple of friends, that texted, called or took us to dinner at just the right time and they didn't know how helpful they were being. Got good people around us and it truly take a village.

So, tax season is over. David is currently playing golf to relax and plans to spend some time with his boy this afternoon. Celebrations are planned and most importantly I'm hoping that my lessons learned as a wife and mom continue to be fostered for the rest of the year and complacency doesn't take over my desire to be the best for my family that God will allow me to be.

Outdoors Man and a Lil' Daddy Time

2011-04-11T11:16:00.000-07:00

Our little man is such an outdoors man. Many times he will just stand at the back door and stare at me until I finally say "Let's put your shoes on." And then its as if the magic word has been spoken. This weekend, though a little windy, was one of those that we wanted to be outside. With David home on Sunday, he and Matthew got some good time together.

Yes, that's Matthew AND David both under the playground...they were just talking

Yea, I'm a stud...anymore questions?

Showing us something

David was watering some of the grass so we thought we would let him explore the sprinkler...

Exploring...

And, we didn't like it.

Finished it all of with a ride into the sunset.

Ms. Sydney's Turning Two

2011-04-11T11:06:00.000-07:00

Our good friend, Sydney, had her 2nd birthday party this weekend at the zoo. Matthew and I are becoming regulars at the zoo these days (should probably get that annual pass) and we love going everytime. It was fun to be apart of Ms. Sydney's special day with her family and friends...this girl is loved.

Climbing through the play ground

Birthday girl having everyone sing to her

Scoping out the goods...again, it always seems like Matthew is the only boy around. That will work out well for him later I'm sure.

Foreshadowing of the 3 1/2 hour nap he took...I'm tired

Checking out the giraffes

Stomp, Stomp Goes the Rhino

We had a great time with each other and exploring all around. He walked everywhere and again took a 3 1/2 hour nap. Such a sweet boy and great experiences.

Who's Afraid of a Big Bear?!?!

2011-04-11T10:54:00.000-07:00

Well, I'm not sure, because the Baylor Bears were not out to see when we went the other day. But we had a good time exploring around campus and of course, Matthew got all the lessons on Baylor and how things will be different when he is forced to go there...wink!

Just restin'

Where did they go?!?!

Coolin' off in the fountain

It's great to show him parts of Waco and David and I's life. He loves everything about Baylor soon, so IF he decides to go there for school it will be fun looking back on when he was small and exprienced it.

Important Business Lunch

2011-04-05T07:14:00.000-07:00

During tax season (which is another post all by itself), we try and meet David for lunch once a week on my off days. This is a special time for Matthew and David since they don't see each other much. Matthew just lights up and when we pull in the parking lot of David's work he says "Dada??"

This week, we went on a picnic at the lake and it was alot of fun and the weather was beautiful.

Loving on Daddy

Dairy Queen for Everybody

He's becoming such a boy and not a baby...Sorry, Mom has been in denial for a while.

Sweet...

Playing chase with Daddy and showing him how fast I run

2 More Weeks of Taxes...We'll look forward to being physically together again.

Time with Cousin

2011-04-05T07:10:00.000-07:00

David's brother and his wife welcomed their second child, Luke, into the world a couple of weeks ago. He had a short stay in the NICU so we got to play with Maci some while he was there.

Hanging out with our snacks and Capri Suns

Laying down on the job

Good Company

2011-03-13T19:04:00.000-07:00

This weekend, Matthew and I got a chance to spend time with our dear friends the Staffords. Tara and I have been wanting our little ones to get a chance to play together and they sure seemed to enjoy each others company. The weather was beautiful and all the animals were out so the zoo was a success.

This kid has got me tightly wrapped around his finger

Future Love Connection?!!?

The lion was out and was roaring...Pretty cool

Dear Friends- Tara, James and Sydney

Keep You Safe

2011-03-10T18:13:00.000-08:00

Matthew, this song is one that struck me as it captures how I envision my love for you. I pray that now your dad and I teach you how to deal with your fears so that when you are older you feel confident and able to address your giants. No matter how old you get, I'll always be there to keep you safe.

Quiet your heart
It’s just a dream
Go back to sleep

I’ll be right here

I’ll stay awake as long as you need me

To slay all the dragons

And keep out the monsters

I’m watching over you

My love is a light

Driving away all of your fear

So don’t be afraid

Remember I made a promise to keep you safe

You’ll have your own battles to fight

When you are older

You’ll find yourself frozen inside

But always remember

If you feel alone

Facing the giants

And you don’t know

What to do

My love is a light

Driving away all of your fear

So don’t be afraid

Remember I made a promise to keep you safe

Good Catch

2011-03-09T06:54:00.001-08:00

We got Matthew one of those Velcro baseball gloves. Well, some how I don't think he realized he wasn't the ball. (Notice glove on bottom and ball still in his hand).

Let's Go Fly A Kite

2011-03-09T06:53:00.000-08:00

The other day it was fairly windy, so I pulled out the kite to give it a shot. I got it up a few times, but the wind was more gusting than blowing.

Matthew thought this stick was more entertaining at first.

But then he came around...

Fun times.

16 Months Young

2011-03-02T09:15:00.000-08:00

This little man is growing up...and FAST!!! I can't believe that he is 16 months already. What a blessing and joy he has become, and really always has been. Here's what he's been doing lately:

Loves to dance and sing. Anytime we're around the house, I'll have music on and he'll bounce his little self around. He also knows the actions to "Itsy Bitsy Spider", "Happy And You Know It", "Jesus Loves Me", "Patty Cake", and "The Wheels on The Bus".
He is talking alot more and absorbing everything (Mommy and Daddy are much more mindful about what comes out of their mouth...a good thing) Some of the things he normallys says: dog, cat, happy, shoes, that (all the time), mama, dada, paw-paw, basketball, ball, heart, hat (every morning wants to put one on), and hot.
He loves being outside and especially in the back yard with Sydney. I let him play out there alot while I get dinner ready. We're looking into getting him some toys for the backyard now that the weather is improving.
We usually walk around our block almost every night, its about a 1/4 mile. He likes kicking the leaves and talking with all the neighbors.
He has almost all his teeth. I think we need maybe 4 more for a complete set.
He loves animals and likes to read his books with animals so he can make all the sounds.
He sleeps from 7:30-7.
Had a case of RSV and kicked it pretty good.

I'm sure there is more but that is a quick summary. He is at a very interactive stage and its fun to have him around to help. It may take longer but its a joy to see him desiring to be a part of the family and clean up, or water the plants, or wipe the table. He's a keeper and constanstly puts a deep seeded contentness and pride in my soul when I'm around him.

Love you Matthew. You are my sunshine.

Calling All Super Readers

2011-02-23T06:45:00.000-08:00

Matthew has really taken a liking to reading. Many times if I'm in the other room and it gets quiet I'll come check on him to find this...

When we're home together we probably spend at least an hour reading together. It has really helped him learn to identify things and also just develop a love of books. We've gone to Barnes and Noble many times to read there books and we'll make a trip to the library as well.

Lovely Weather

2011-02-22T06:47:00.000-08:00

Man, oh man, is this some good weather or what that we've had. Matthew is just like his mommy in that he loves to be outside. He'll stand at the door and wait for me or he'll become inpatient and follow me around whining until we go outside. Needless to say, rainy days always get us down.

Playing in the grass

Examining the leaves...a favorite pasttime.

We have made the most of these beautiful days so far. Each night for the past month, weather permitting, we take a walk around our little block in our neighborhood. Matthew loves walking in the leaves and talking to all the neighbors.

Mommy was getting away so we had to chase her

Our Fav 4 Year Old's Birthday

2011-02-21T08:01:00.000-08:00

Our favorite little(not so little) four year old, Andrew Davlin, had his birthday party this weekend. It was at the Jump House, which was a first for Matthew...and Mommy.

The Birthday Boy

It took Matthew a little bit to get used to the jumping things. He wasn't real sure about walking on them. So we just ran around looking at everything and squeeling for a little bit.

Our good friend, Hunter was there and they enjoyed exploring together as well. I think Mr. Tim got quite the workout playing with these too.

Are they locking us in here!?!?!?

He got a little more brave and took full advantage of all the jumping toys.

Just chillin in the bounce house

Sliding with Mommy

At the bottom of the big slide. (FYI- It is an extremely good workout to have to carry your 30 lb. son up these things while its swaying around...definately sweated)

And by the end...we were EXCITED!!!

It was fun to be a part of our friend Andrew's party. I can't believe he is already four as it seems like yesterday I was babysitting him and he wasn't even walking. Thanks for letting us be apart of this big day.

Day at the Park with Daddy

2011-02-14T18:55:00.000-08:00

On Sunday, the weather was BEAUTIFUL!!! David took Matthew to the park to spend some time with him and I took the chance to go running and met them there. I know they had a blast.

Driving the playground

Loving being outside...this kid was born to be outdoors

Push me higher Daddy!!

Cutest face in the world.

We had a nasty fall on the slide. Matthew apparently fell forward on the slide and busted his top lip. In the picture above you can see some puffiness. It looked like a marble was in his lip. We got him home and gave him a freezy pop to suck on and he was good to go.

I know he will have so many memories of his daddy and him playing.

White February

2011-02-14T18:25:00.000-08:00

Last week it snowed in Waco and for a little while really did look like a winter wonderland. Matthew has now seen snow 5 times in his short life. That might be more than most Wacoan's have seen in their whole life.

We did our most to make the most of the day...but Matthew is like his mommy and doesn't really like the cold, especially the windy cold.

We started off the morning with cartoons and warmth

We ventured out and what a stinkin cute snow angel

He got a little more comfortable with it and explored

Daddy got home later that day and played. This is such a sweet picture and really just shows the love and care David has for Matthew

My boys

Loving in the snow

Then we warmed up by the fire and read books

It was a fun day and something certainly different than we normally get here in Waco.

Still Kicking It

2011-02-02T07:51:00.000-08:00

Life has been, well, crazy the last few weeks. So, pardon the lack of blog postings. We also lost our camera somewhere between the Las Vegas airport and our wreck...a new one is coming on Friday, so we'll be back to getting great pics of our little dude.

We got a new car to replace our Explorer that didn't survive the wreck. A Nissan Maxima...I'm digging it. We also got new bedroom furniture and so we had to clear all our old stuff out, some stuff still needs to make its way to the storage shed.

Last week, Matthew was coughing, but not really anything bad. But on Thursday, it didn't sound right to me so I took him in just to get checked out. Well, he had RSV and a double ear infection. Poor guy. That day and the next day we were making sure he drank plenty and was breathing good so he didn't have to be hospitalized. God is good and he recovered well. He is still on breathing treatments and we'll have a follow up appointment on Friday.

David was out of town on Thursday, and I NEVER EVER want to be a single parent. Kuddos to those who do that on a regular basis.

So, we kept him out of daycare this week in order for his lungs to fully heal. We've had good times together though both of us are ready for warmer weather to be able to play outside.

This weekend will be all about relaxing and getting some pics up on the blog.

The Bad First

2011-01-17T09:06:00.000-08:00

Let me first say, we had a great time in Vegas and relaxed and were overstimulated by everything Vegas had to offer. And of course, Matthew was spoiled, which we were happy for, by his Gran and PawPaw. Pictures and details from the trip to come.

We had a first yesterday and as I write this I am flooded with emotions and gratitude. We had a pretty bad wreck on the way to church yesterday morning. The road was pretty wet and we hydroplaned on 35 and hit the median and then went across 35 and the frontage road and jumped over a big ditch and landed nose first on the other side. We walked...that's right...walked away seemingly unharmed. It could have been alot worse, and I'm trying not to be tempted to go there in my mind. Instead, I'm counting my blessing and praising my God for watching over us.

I was driving and it is just an out of control feeling, especially when I could hear Matthew crying in the background. ONce we were stopped David got him out of his seat and I held him and of course lost it. He then saw me crying and started crying so I had to pull it together quickly. I love my family everyday and more today as we faced a scary time yesterday. David and I are sore and Matthew is 100% except for a little bruise on his neck from the seatbelt. If you ever think of going anywhere without your little ones in their car seat...think again, I'm a believer as I saw that these car seats work!!

Gratitude and praise.

Let the Countdown Begin

2011-01-05T07:32:00.000-08:00

At this time in 3 days, we will be dropping off Matthew with my parents (tear) and heading to the airport for Vegas. I have to say I'm getting really excited. David and I will miss Matthew terribly but know he will be very spoiled for the week he'll be with Gran and PawPaw. They've already said he's going to the Baylor Lady Bear Big 12 opener, church, and lots of play time with them. He'll be great!! Of course, it will take some adjusting to being without him, but David and I need this time and are excited about it.

So, what do we have planned so far??
My brother and sister in law are driving in from LA on Saturday to meet us there. For Christmas they gave us tickets to "O" for Saturday night. I believe we're having a nice dinner before and then we'll probably be up late that night. David's conference, the reason we're going, starts on Sunday morning, so he may call it an early night.

On Monday, David got me an hour long massage at the hotel we're staying at, the Bellagio. I will thoroughly enjoy that.

On Tuesday, while David is at his conference I've scheduled a tour to Hoover Dam. Should be interesting and I'll make sure and take some dam pictures.

Other than that, we'll be gambling, eating great food and drinks, and mainly just taking time to relax and share each other's company.

3 days!!!

2011 Resolutions...so far

2011-01-04T07:51:00.000-08:00

So, I'm not really into making resolutions. Or, at least calling them that, it makes me feel like I'm setting myself up to fail. So, we'll call them goals, aspirations, dreams, or just things I should be doing anyway but procrastinate doing.

1) David and I give ourselves $15/week for us to spend on whatever we want. So this year, I'm going to save $30 out of that each month and donate to an organization that assists the needs of the African people. I have already done some research and think I've found a great organization to give to. Why Africa, well, I have a heart for the suffering and they are. I also feel that my $30 will go farther economically over there than it would in the states.

2) Join a Bible study. I think this would be good for me overall.

3) Do an Olympic distance triathlon. That's 1 mile swimming, 25 mile bike ride, and 6 mile run. I did the sprint last year, so I think I really need the challenge this year.

4) Have a date night once a month with my hubby. So, babysitters, make your reservations.

5) Go water skiing during the summer once a weekend. This is my all time favorite activity and I haven't done it in 2 years!! 2 years ago I was pregnant and last year we had Matthew and just never made the time. So this year, no excuses I'll be carving those waves.

6) Finish my hours for my social work clinical license. This should be done in about 9 more months. After that I will sit (and pass...power of positive thinking) the clinical test and then I will hopefully pursue in the next few years a private practice counseling opportunity.

7) Most importantly, continue to strive to be the best wife, mommy, daughter, sister and friend to all those in my life.

David and I have our goals for us as a couple, but he has those outlined in Excel sheets and foreign things that I don't understand. These goals are ones just for me as an individual.

Sound doable?!?!...I think so. Ask me next year how these are going.

14 (or so) Months

2011-01-03T13:32:00.000-08:00

This kid is AWESOME!!! I think every stage of his life I've said it's my favorite...well, this is no exception. We are loving having this kid and just seeing all that he can do, his personality, and his skills. He regularly cracks us up and its just a joy to have him around. David and I talked last night about how glad we were we had him. We are not known to have the best luck in the world and we both joked that we did something right to have a great kid like him.

Here's some things that he has been up recently:

- He weighs about 27 pounds and is tall as well. He's solid and strong. I walked into our front room the other day and he had picked up my 5 lb. dumbbells with two hands and was carrying them around the house. We hoped for a quarterback but I think we got a lineman.

- He can say: "Dada" (his favorite), "Mama", "Paw-Paw" (which is what we call my dad), "Hot" (also used correctly in context, i.e. the stove, fireplace), "That", "Dog" "Cat".

- He can make reference to alot of animals and their sounds. His favorite is "What does an alligator say?" And he swings his hands together and says "Snap" or "Map". He pounds his chest for gorilla, he says "Ha-Ha" for a monkey and started to kind of grunt twice for "Bark-Bark".

-He can hold up his finger for one. At Christmas his cousin was getting a "talking to" at the table and when Aunt Kiki said You have 3 chances, and this is number one." Matthew raised up one finger and said "un". Hilarious.

- He walks everywhere and tries to run. He loves football and has about 10 of them at our house. He loves his outdoors.

- He has the sweetest nature and really is a good kid. He's laidback unless he wants something badly and he'll get upset. He also is very determined and wants to learn how to do things and likes to be shown how and then try to do it. David and I have come to appreciate this and let him explore this world he's living in. We feel that has allowed him to really grow in his independence and trusting himself. It also helps him know that we'll be there to teach him but we know he can do it as well.

- He laughs alot and Mommy knows where all the tickle spots are. He really loves to praised and just beams with pride when we do.

I guess that's about it. Of course, I know there is more. He is doing great, we are loving each other and just enjoy being a family.

Christmas Day 2010

2010-12-29T12:08:00.000-08:00

Santa definately came to our house (and made a few extra stops at Gran and PawPaw's house and Aunt Kiki's house). I'm so glad that man in the red suit has GPS.

That morning, Matthew came and snuggled with us in bed for a little bit and we put out his presents from Santa. A tradition from my family is that my brother and me always had to run into together to the living room to see what Santa bought. I found myself doing that with Matthew as well.

Then we got to open presents from Mom and Dad. It was just fun seeing him be involved in the process...pulling things out of his stocking, ripping the paper, and playing with his toys along the way.

Playing with my new front end loader

This truck is Awesome!!!

Digging in my stocking--I got a hot wheels

Playing with all my little toys..he's so freaking cute.

Opening my new tool bench with Daddy

While, I was getting ready, Daddy and Matthew ate donuts together. He obviously had a good time.

He was pointing to the donut. He is able to identify alot of things.

Sheer excitement!! (and powdered sugar)

After our Christmas together, we packed up and went ALL THE WAY across town to Gran and PawPaws, where it looked as though Toys R Us threw up in their living room. Grandparents role= spoiling the grandkid...and you know what, I'm okay with that. Matthew is very loved and it was good to be with them to share in the excitement as he opened and played with everything. It is always better when you can see the person open the present in front of you.

Getting my stocking goodies...I needed a little assistance from Mommy

Entertaining...it's a rough life

Playing with my fire truck from Tim and Sam

I thought I would enjoy my Mega Blocks better in the box

Helping Daddy open his new golf bag

PawPaw and Matthew have been known to take naps together. So they got a Pillow Pet for Christmas to share. Here they are testing it out. So cute! They are best buds.

Matthew got his very own chair for Christmas and he loved it. Climbed all over it and enjoyed having something his size.

Again, its more fun to play in the box of toys

I got lots of snuggle time with my Uncle Tim

And my PawPaw, who had matching PJs for Christmas

On the day after Christmas, we spent it hanging out with David's family. I managed to not take a single picture while we were there. But I assure you we were having fun playing with Maci and Matthew. Thanks Mark and Kari for hosting and we look forward to next year.

Chstimas Eve

2010-12-28T13:34:00.000-08:00

Christmas was SO. MUCH. FUN. this year with Matthew. Just seeing the festivities, lights, experiences through a child's eyes is very genuine. Matthew was a delight and really seemed to enjoy all the things we did. Which brings me to Christmas Eve where we hung out with my family as my brother and sister in law were in town from LA. We had a great time together and I think they are a little smitten with Matthew.

We started off our day making cookies and Matthew had to get in on that action. I'm not sure if he enjoyed it but he sure enjoyed eating the dough (but honestly, who doesn't?!?!)

Helping put the cutters in place

These need to be thinner

PawPaw offering some cookie dough

Uncle Tim got in on the action as well

That evening we went to the Christmas Eve service at my parents church. Matthew wasn't haven't it so we pulled out every trick to entertain...Pencils, candles, books, paper, keys, fingers, watches, poking Daddy and PawPaw in the nose. He eventually got too restless and him and David got to go run around outside and the foyer.

Sweet boy at church messing with whatever would keep him interested

That service was special as I took a moment to reflect on why we even have Christmas to begin with. It was a sweet, quiet time to rest in the hope and assurance we have because of the gift of life and love given to me.

That evening we got everything out for the next day. And then....we wait for Santa!!!

Christmas Swordfighting

2010-12-20T09:14:00.000-08:00

Not sure who won.

Nature in Lights

2010-12-20T09:10:00.000-08:00

This Friday, we decided, somewhat impromptu, to take Matthew to see the Nature in Lights in Belton. This kid loves lights and is always showing them to us and making sure you know that he knows the lights are on.
Here we are about to take off in anticipation of what this adventure may hold...

So we are off. We ate dinner in the car in order to get there in plenty of time to see all the lights before little man ran out of energy. What a treat. We arrived and are ready to see the show.

Since we were going so slowly through the park, Matthew got to get out of his seat and sit up front with us. He even helped Mommy drive at one point.

Family Shot...not the best in the car

Elves dancing...all the lights moving was definately fun for Matthew. He kept pointing and smiling. Just looked in awe of it the whole time.

Watching with Daddy

Come on Mommy...put the pedal to the metal

Both of them were fascinated

And when we were done, we got a fresh diaper, Christmas PJs, and before we were back on the main road, he was out!

It truly is more fun at Christmas with a little one to see enjoy the festivities.

Birthday Party and a Birth

2010-12-19T19:23:00.000-08:00

On Thursday afternoon, Matthew and I got to go celebrate Ms. Karlie Davis' 3rd birthday. She had a painting party and it was alot of fun. Matthew got to act like a big boy and paint alot.

I'm an artist Mommy.

He loved doing something new.

We painted a picture and a Christmas ornament

The birthday girl getting her cupcake

My dear friend Marci, Karlie's mom, shown here is almost 37 weeks pregnant. Not predicted by anyone, she went into labor at about 2:00am after the party. She had a healthy baby girl, Kinsie, and both are doing well. It was exciting to be apart of both of these big days in the Davis family.